It's official. Nicholas has the suds.
He woke up last night coughing and complaining of a sore throat.
I called Children's Hospital this morning to cancel his overnight stay. The coordinator told me not to worry. She said she was getting ready to call me to tell me that Nicholas had been bumped. The hospital is full with children suffering from the flu.
The city of Boston has declared a flu emergency.
Since Nicholas has a weakened immune system, this cancellation is probably a very good thing.
Thankfully, both of my children received flu shots. All week he has been very emotional and uncooperative, a sure sign that something is wrong. There were no outward signs of sickness though, no runny nose, no swollen glands and no constipation, which is usually my first clue that something is off. He was just not himself. I knew something was coming.
We cut back on his school day to prevent him from getting over tired. We loaded him up with fluids, vitamins and healthy food. But alas, the night before our hospital visit, the tough little man finally succumbed to the side effects of the flu.
"But Mummy, I want to go to the hos-BIT-i-BAL!" Nicholas wailed. "I want to get my buttons on!"
There was no consoling my enthusiastic adventurer, his tears were as big as watermelons.
I, on the other hand, am relieved. I was having trouble preparing myself for this next visit. Usually, I am able to simply flick the special needs mother's block switch and easily shut down the emotion that accompanies our visits to the neurology floor.
This time, however, I was unable to access this superpower. I felt like I bumped into a brick wall and lost all my power coins. It was as if my supermario button on my controller was jammed leaving me unprotected and exposed to the relentless attack of bob-ombs, thwomps and pirhana plants.
So, as the lovely neurology coordinator, Kathy, (another of our favorites) reassured me that this cancellation was probably for the best, inside I breathed a very big sigh of relief. Kathy was able to give us more time and rescheduled our appointment to February 1.
We had a regular neurology appointment scheduled for Feb 14. I was anxious to speak with our beloved Neurologist, Dr Takeoka about a new medication called Provigil (more on this later). It is a medication that many families have successfully used to help their child diagnosed with PWS to sleep better through the night and become more focused during the school hours. It seems to normalize their disrupted circadian rhythms and allows them to concentrate better during the day.
Dr T's assistant called us back to tell us they had canceled this appointment. She explained that Dr Takeoka knows we are anxious to discuss this new trial with him. He wants to meet with us on Saturday (!) while we are already in the hospital, saving us another trip to Boston and addressing our immediate concerns.
This small act of kindness is a very big deal to a family raising a complex child.
He placed our needs ahead of his own, meeting with us on an off day. He understands that to a family of a child diagnosed with special needs, there is nothing more important then alleviating our child's suffering now.
Once again, I feel fortunate to have such a kind and helpful healer in our lives.
In the meantime, we are resting, giving poor Nicholas a chance to recover from the suds and his poor mother a chance to unstick her power-up button.